Don't take it personal

People do not do things for or against you.  They act for their own reasons, right or wrong, and you happen to be there.

Don’t take it personal.

Make no small plans

The greatest risk in life is not that we aim too high and miss, it’s that we aim too low and hit.

Aim higher.

Who do we let influence us?

Most peoples definition of intelligence – “If you agree with me you are intelligent.  if you don’t, you’re an idiot.”

If we take this attitude, we are only looking for validation of how we think.  But to get different results, we have to be a different thinker, who then takes different action.

Should we hang around people who have different ideas and views on some things than we have now?

Progress = Happiness

A woman in Hollywood is happy that her new pool has a waterfall in it.

I’m happy that the chlorine is finally flushing out of the well in the house I’m staying at and I’ll be able to drink it soon.

A woman in Africa is happy it rained because the mud puddle she gets her water from has clear water in it today.

What makes people happy is not what level they are at, but progress.

People are happy when they are making progress.

Are you making progress?

Interpretative memory

“Nothing is either good or bad, but thinking makes it so” – Wm. Shakespeare

Stuff happens to all of us.  What meaning have you assigned to what happened?

Was it really that bad?

Transform your inner critic

There is a voice inside you telling you that you aren’t worthy, able, deserving, and “enough”.

Do you hear it?  Recognize it, and tell yourself – “This is not me”.  It’s just a story.

Transform your inner critic into an inner coach.  Tell yourself “I can, I will, I am able, I’m enough, and I deserve.”  It doesn’t matter if you don’t believe it at first.  

Create a new positive voice, and put it on replay.

Replay.  Replay. Replay.

Substitution

Are you getting/eating/doing too much of what you don’t need, and too little of what you do?

What do you need less of?

What do you need more of?

When will you start the substitution?

Control the inputs

You can’t bake a cake with bad, sour, negative, stale or rotten ingredients.

Control the inputs into your life.

Develop you

Most people never realize the greatness inside of them because they spend most of their time on activities that have nothing to do with it.

What about you?

"Thinking Music"

I educated myself on audiobooks, so I don’t listen to the radio a lot.  However, I love music.  When I am working I listen to music that doesn’t distract me, but inspires me and brings out my creativity.

I was playing “Coastal Brake” by Tycho, and my daughter Autumn said “This is thinking music”.   “Yes!”

Here’s a few of my favorites to play while working.

Jon Hopkins  “Light through the Veins”, Cocteau Twins “Pandora (for Cindy)”, Solar Fields “Bngl.W”, The Egg “Venice Beach”, Cloud Atlas Finale, Tycho “Montana”, Saucy “Through the Sky”, and Passenger 10 “What a Feeling”.

Enjoy!