Setting goals for what you think is probable.

We had some experiences and the world responded to us.  Based on those early experiences we drew a box around ourselves and said “That’s who I am”.  We’ve been acting that way ever since.

But is it true?

Now we set goals based on what we think is probable for us, instead of what is possible, because we don’t believe in what is really possible – because of the “box”; the identity we accepted as real.

But that is all phony.  It’s only real for us because we bought in.  We believed it. 

The reality is the world was just giving us feedback – when you do this, they like it this much – you get these results.  But it was so early in the game when we weren’t as good, and didn’t know much – or at least as much as others around us at the time and place.

If we give up our story of who we are, and stop going for what we think is probable, we can go for what we really want instead.

Suspend doubt

If you aren’t going to believe you can do it, then at least don’t believe you can’t.

You are unqualified to say what you can and can not do.

If you want it bad enough, you can.

Do you?

You were wrong about you

If someone told you that you are playing too small and are more able and powerful than you are showing, would you argue with them?

I am telling you that right now.

If you argue, that’s not very smart.  If you don’t, then you should do some serious thinking about how you are showing up each day and what you are going for.  

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There's no suitcase to get out of here.

Are you being your best self?

Results are reflections

Pretend there is a mirror in front of you all day long.  

How are you showing up?