Imagine an activity where you can win very easily – like if you played Scrabble with first graders. When you win, does it have value and improve your self-esteem?
Now imagine a challenge that is tough, takes a lot of what you’ve got, and goes on for months or years; imagine fighting that one. It’s maybe…like the struggle you have right now.
It’s the struggle that makes us, even if we don’t win.
We get better and stronger by struggling.