Don’t believe everything you think (or say).

Your thoughts got you here.  You are talking to yourself all the time.

But if you want to keep growing, you will need new and better thoughts.

You will have to let go of some ideas and narratives about yourself and the world to allow newer, updated, (conflicting) ones to enter and grow.

Hold loosely to your ideas, and be willing to let them go when you see a better one come into view.

This is growing, and maturing, and getting better.

Don’t be a pawn

The media’s (mainstream and social) job is to entertain you and hold your attention.  

Your job is to ignore them.

Don’t be a tool.

Use that time for much better purposes in your life.

Choosing Easy World

I will lay this thought on you today – 

There is a book called Choosing Easy World by Julia Rogers Hamrick.  It’s a guide to opting out of struggle and strife and living in the amazing realm where everything is easy.

Wow!  That sounds great!

Here’s the premise.  Struggle and suffering is internal.  Choose to live in Easy World, where everything is easy.  When some daunting challenge barrels into view, just decide that you’re going to experience it as easy instead.

I like that idea.  I’m going to use that when I go to the 13-day Dakar Rally in Saudi Arabia in a few months!

“Fat Chance”

Today, some highlights from the book “Fat Chance: Beating the Odds Against Sugar, Processed Food, Obesity and Disease” by Dr. Robert Lustig.

The book is a bold science-grounded exposé, revealing how sugar isn’t just a sweet treat but a metabolic disrupter fundamentally reshaping health.

“Sugar isn’t a neutral snack – it’s toxic.”  Lustig argues that sugar, especially in its refined forms, acts like a poison, rewiring the body’s biochemistry and fueling obesity, diabetes, and heart disease.

“Calories lie – the type matters.  A calorie is not a calorie when it comes to sugar, as it triggers hormonal imbalances like insulin and leptin resistance that hijack hunger and metabolism.”

I know – we all love sugar.  But that’s a problem…

What is one substitution you can make to do better?

Sleep like a champion- continued

I find that when I was “normal” (did what everyone else did), I found some ideas like what we are talking about to be outlandish.  Like “no way I can do that”, or “That can’t make that much of a difference”.  Understandably so.  We create habits of doing and thinking that we think are good or ok because they are common.  But look around.  There are a lot of people who are not healthy, or could be doing better.  

“It is no measure of health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick society.”

So by definition, if you want to do better than average, you can’t do what average people do.

Anyway, let’s get back to talking about sleep.  

Working out is good for you, right?  No doubt.  You have to get your heart rate up at least every other day for 30-40 minutes.  And studies show that maintaining some muscle mass is important for so many reasons.  But when should you workout – in the morning or at night?

When it comes to having good sleep, definitely in the morning.  Why?  Because working out doing strenuous exercise at night gets you all jacked up and warmed up, and you can’t get your heart rate down and go to sleep for some time afterwards.  If you work out in the morning, you will go to bed earlier and sleep better.  

I am one of those people who said “I hate getting up in the morning, so I don’t want to get up earlier to work out.”  Yeah because I went to bed too late – maybe because I worked out late and ate late!  You see, it’s a cycle.  You have to go to bed earlier to make this work.

One power lifter said that he worked out at night for many years.  When he started working out in the morning, everything changed, and he was sleeping much better.

A good day starts the night before when you go to bed.

Another thing that is important is having your bedroom dark.  Recently, I got rid of this big digital clock that glowed with blue numbers from my nightstand.  It matters.  Dark is good for sleep!  Again, that’s why you want to shut screens off early.  Many are using red light bulbs in bedroom lamps for the wind-down time.  I haven’t tried that yet.

Another thing is temperature.  Cool is good for sleep.  The sweet spot is 65 degrees F.  The cool temperature will promote deeper sleep.  You can regulate your temperature with the blanket covering a little more or a little less.

I’m not big into too much data, but if you have an Apple Watch you already have a sleep app on it.  I wore mine to bed and got some basic information, including total sleep time, time awake, time in deep, core, or REM sleep, and what my heart rate was.  If you can get your heart rate down that’s good.  Mine touches 48 for the low most nights, but can go up to as high as 68 on an average night.   

So, that’s some ideas to get better sleep.  Most of the things you need to do to get better sleep are things you do while you are awake to prepare your body to sleep well.  

Good luck with this and leave a comment!

Sleep like a champion!

Continuing our discussion about sleep, here are a few more things I found out by learning and actual testing – they really work!

The next thing is do not eat a big meal late.  In fact, if you can eat your last meal before 6pm, (even 5pm!) you will sleep better.  While this is not a discussion on how to lose weight, they are related!  If you go a long time each day wothout eating, your body will switch over from buring calories as fuel to burning fat as fuel.  And the longer you go, 12 hours, 13, 14, 15…the more exponential the benefits are.

But let’s stick to sleep.  When you eat a big meal, your heart rate goes up and your body works to digest all that stuff.  You lie in bed, and you are hot, because your body is generating heat digesting everything you ate.  Then later, in the wee hours when the bulk of the digestion is done and your body has stored all the extra as fat, then you cool down and can sleep better.  But, it’s too late – you don’t have enough hours to get enough sleep.  So don’t eat late, and don’t eat big for your last meal.  Lunch can be big – but not dinner.

Restaurants want you to have drinks, an appetizer, a main course and a desert – because they drive the ticket up and make more money!  You have to be smarter than that!

More on great sleep tomorrow!

Great sleep makes you a better person

When you sleep well and enough, don’t you feel great the next day?

I can say that when I don’t have enough sleep, I can’t focus – I have brain fog the next day.  And I am not happy!  My ambition, optimism, and patience all take a big hit.  And when I am tired, I eat more to try to maintain my energy level.

How about you?

So let’s talk about this.  It may take a few days to get through all the things I have experienced (no new discoveries for mankind!), but it’s important.

The first requirement is that you cannot sleep enough by getting up later on most days.  I mean, you gotta get the kids going, get them to school, get to work…right?

So the only way to get more/enough sleep is to go to bed earlier.  To do that, you have to start your wind-down routine earlier.

Here’s another thing – you have to shut off the screens at LEAST one hour before bed.  That’s right, people!  I know we are all addicted to our favorite app and all the content engineered to give us little addictive dopamine hits, but you have to stop.  You know if you get on your phone, you’ll be there for hours.  And what do you get out of it long term – nothing.

Screens emit blue light.  Blue light is like the daytime sky, and when your eyes see it, your brain emits chemicals that say, “It’s daytime, stay awake.”  

Kill the screens early.  Instead, get something to read.  For me, reading gets me pretty sleepy in about 15 minutes when it’s close to bedtime.

Let’s talk more about HOW to SLEEP LIKE A CHAMPION tomorrow.

The one who influences us the most…

“It was hard to communicate with you.  You were always communicating with yourself.  The line was busy.” – Jean Kerr

We talk to ourselves constantly.

Over and over, we hear messages, beliefs, and reinforcements.

What are you saying?

He who thinks he can….

Belief builds reality. 

There’s “He who thinks he can” – who goes out there and figures it out and does it.

Equally, there’s “He who thinks he can’t” – who just can’t do it – because he believes he can’t, he doesn’t try.  

Belief is a very powerful factor in achievement.

What do you believe you can and can’t do?

Crises awakens your potential

Your greatest strengths emerge when they are forced out of you; when you HAVE to do things you wouldn’t normally do, or do yet.

A crisis reveals what you can do when you have to.

And now that you know, the fence you constructed in your mind gets moved out.

What crisis in your life had you doing things you’d never have done otherwise?

“This is not happening to me, it’s happening for me.” – Sean Stephenson