Skills – Use it or lose it.

But if you never TRY to use it, you won’t have it in the first place.

Everyone that’s ever done anything, did it for the first time.

We are all unqualified at first.

Do it.  Learn.  Do it again and again.

That’s how you become qualified/good/an expert/not afraid or uncomfortable anymore.

Freaks of Nurture

Your personality is your tendency, not your destiny.  

You can learn to apply character and values in situations that are not inherently natural for you.

Be influenced by the right voices.

Work on it every day.  

I do.

What information filter are you using?

We get a lot of information – whether we seek it out on purpose or it comes anyway.

What filter do you use to determine what is worth paying attention to and what is valuable – and what is not?

Is it confirmation bias – you want to be right and look for information that validates a position you have already taken?

Is it a filter of a goal – what is useful or not useful in you accomplishing it?

Is it your ego?  What makes you feel good about yourself?

It’s all out there for you.

Change your information filter, and your world will change.

"Atmospheric Conditions"

Joe Polish says “If you understand the atmospheric conditions of somebody’s life, it makes sense why they are the way they are.”

You can change atmospheric conditions.  As an adult, you have that power.

What conditions will you change in your life?

The best information may cost some money

“Don’t evaluate something on what it costs.  Evaluate it on what it is worth.” – Jim Rohn

The best information may cost some real money.  

Often you don’t so much need the information yourself, but you need the person who has and uses it on your behalf.

The right information on your side can be like a key in your lock.

What’s it worth to solve your problems or take you where you want to go?

Grow to be the person you need to be

You don’t accomplish your goals until you grow to be the kind of person who achieves them – and not before.

What do you want to achieve?

What kind of person does that/can do that?

How can you learn to be that kind of person who knows what they need to know and does what they need to do?

Get a boost toward your goals

You can reach your goals if you stand on top of the right books, seminars and classes from the right people.

What voices are the right ones for your goals?

Blaming is Abdication

The minute you blame, you abdicate.

So if you blame others for your situation, you are saying they are in control of that part of your life, and you are not.  And if that is true, then you have no power to change it.

Don’t blame.

Take responsibility, and take control.

Laughing – when there is nothing else you can do.

“Tragedy is when you cut your finger.  Comedy is when you fall into a sewer and die.” – Mel Brooks

Sometimes something so terrible happens that it’s impossible to feel bad enough relative to the other things you thought were bad.  What can you do? – Laugh.

“Dang.  Oh well.  Lol”

Mel Brooks also said – “Humor is another weapon against the universe.” 

Use it when you need to.

Cheating Death

If Einstein, Rockefeller, and Reagan couldn’t cheat death, what chance do you have?

You are alive now.  

Make the most of it.