When to shake your snow globe – and when to stop

Pretend we have a snow globe in our minds.  

For some of us, we’re in such a habit of mediocrity and comfort, all the snow has long settled, and not a lot is happening.  That group needs to shake the snow globe.  Go to different places, meet new people, change your habits, and try new things.

For some of us, the snow never settles.  We’re chasing shiny objects, (some worthy of course), maxing out every day, and were exhausted and feeling like we can’t catch up.  We need to stop shaking the snow globe for a while.  Don’t start any new projects, take time off, catch up, and finish what we started.

What advice do you give yourself; which group are you in?  Tell me with the orange button!

A great day begins the night before.

Set yourself up for a great day tomorrow.

Go to bed early.

When the mind studies the mind.

When you study the human mind and how it works, you can understand why you think the way you do.

You can observe yourself thinking and make corrections.

If you learn about it, you can be your own therapist, avoid suffering, and optimize your own experience.

Get rid of junk mail

Stop your junk mail. 

Send your address and a request to be removed from all mailing lists to –

Mail Preference Service
Direct Marketing Association
P.O. Box 9008
Farmingdale, NY 11735-9008

(I hope this works!)

Time will tell

We can heavily influence the outcome of any situation.  

Yet you never know the consequences of bad fortune when it happens.  Wait. 

You never know all the consequences of good fortune either.  

Time will tell. 

Think, and keep doing your best each day.

What do you believe is possible for you?

You’re thinking about a challenge or a difficult task, and you think it’s not possible.

Do you get started and attempt it in earnest?

No.  We don’t try/do things we think are impossible for us, right?

What we believe about ourselves has a lot to do with what we attempt and accomplish. 

What do you believe is possible?

Take a chance, yet again.

Nothing good comes without a risk.

“Where there is a chance of gain, there is a chance of loss.

Whenever one courts great happiness, one also risks malaise.” – Walker Percy

If it didn’t work out, you have to learn from it and be smarter, but don’t stop taking chances.

You can get all "A's", and still flunk life

You can be right all the time, but how are you interacting with other people?

The positive residue of tragedy

If our lives were all easy and full of peaches and rainbows, we’d be pretty weak, and pretty vulnerable.

Tragedy helps us grow.  It makes us stronger psychologically and emotionally; and that strength is what is necessary to live an even better life.

Use it.

Memory-go-round

Some of us live mostly in the past, letting what happened have a strong influence on today, and their identity.

If the past, or parts of it are not good, then there is a strong argument to change your habits of thinking to let it go.  The first part of any change is to notice what you are habitually doing, and want to change.

Understand that the mistakes others made had nothing to do with you.  And you were doing your best (and learning) when you made mistakes.  It was all part of the process to make you better and stronger – if you let it.

There’s a longer answer here, but put symbols, words, and images, of who you want to be and where you are going in your environment. Change your environment, and change the words you say to yourself, even if you don’t believe them at first. Make it a point to focus on the better you, free from any past negative influence on purpose each day, until it becomes a habit – which will take longer than 30 days.

The past was events.  You are not an event.

You are a dynamic human being with the power to create any life for yourself that you want.

Now go out and take it.