When people are not good at anything, they do not feel good about themselves.
For example, we can be average at work, and not great at some things, but when we step on the basketball court, we are good, and we know it. Guess what we find ourselves doing a lot? Playing basketball. And we get even better.
When we are good at things, we feel good about ourselves.
What are you good at?
That is probably the source of a good deal of our self-esteem.
We all have the talent and capacity to be good at something.
Find it.