Maybe I haven’t said it so bluntly before, so here you go.
There are almost no limits on what you can do in this world except how you think.
You’re the only one holding you back.
Believe it. Choose. Go.
Andrea
6 years ago
I remember attending a marketing luncheon where I engaged with attendes and did not act uppon cathing the host looking at me. I thought she wanted to sell something so I kept climbing another set of stairs instead of turning around and going over to learn more about why she was looking and if I was right in my assessment of her personality.
Andrea
6 years ago
It turned out that she knew that I love to read and wanted to talk to me about books.
Andrea
6 years ago
I was wrong in assuming I know everything and that I am always accurate when it comes to reading people and figuring out their intentions.
Andrea
6 years ago
Negative experiences do have a way of ruining new friendships because of our fears and unconscious biases.
Andrea
6 years ago
Fortunately, later on I was able to use my own example of fear to encourage her to complete an awesome project she started.
Andrea
6 years ago
I forgave myself for being attached to old hurts and I made a note to let them all go along with the feeling of shame any of my feelings or actions caused.
I remember attending a marketing luncheon where I engaged with attendes and did not act uppon cathing the host looking at me. I thought she wanted to sell something so I kept climbing another set of stairs instead of turning around and going over to learn more about why she was looking and if I was right in my assessment of her personality.
It turned out that she knew that I love to read and wanted to talk to me about books.
I was wrong in assuming I know everything and that I am always accurate when it comes to reading people and figuring out their intentions.
Negative experiences do have a way of ruining new friendships because of our fears and unconscious biases.
Fortunately, later on I was able to use my own example of fear to encourage her to complete an awesome project she started.
I forgave myself for being attached to old hurts and I made a note to let them all go along with the feeling of shame any of my feelings or actions caused.