Things happened. They happen to all of us. That’s not so much the problem.
What we make these events mean to us is often more the problem. We carry all that pain, guilt, anger, embarrassment, and disappointment with us – and we project it into the present and future that hasn’t happened yet.
All that’s over. Let it go. All that matters is you are here now.
What do you want to do?
Ahhh yes Grasshopper
Turns out to be a very timely message for us here at Tarheel. I’ll second Garvey’s thought.